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Have Fears You Want to Kick?

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I just finished reading a new book –> “Fear Fighting” by Kelly Balarie!

 This is a book on how to fight your fears.


Kelly does a great job showing us ways to combat fear!

In the book, Kelly talks about 8 things that cause fear, and how to fight them.  These include control issues, wanting to please people, worry, rejection, and past failures.  Just reading this partial list brings up fear!  So Yeah, we all need this book on how to fight fear.

Kelly is genuine.  She really wants to help women fight fear, and she wants to obey God.  That is why she wrote this book!

In the book, Kelly says that you find the strength inside you, if you ask God to help.  She also says to tell the truth, don’t fear it! Don’t wallow in lies. 

Another weapon to fight fear is prayer.  Don’t groan.  Prayer is powerful!  I pray every morning, and then when I need it during the day.  Don’t bypass this 1st step in the morning – wake up and pray!

Kelly also reveals ways to awaken your courage!   

We all have courage sleeping inside of us.  We just need the keys to wake it up.  You will find your courage by reading this book, and following Kelly’s advice.

Ok let me give you an example from the book –>  

Worry is all about fear, and we all worry!  So how do you fight worry? 

Kelly gives you 7 ways to fight worry, and find calm!!

#1 is when you open your eyes in the morning, start by talking to God.  Say, “God you are good.  I will trust you today. I give my all to you.” That’s just the first worry fighter. 

Kelly lists all 7 ways to fight worry in the book.

What really surprised me, was at the end of the book!  –>

–Kelly suggests that all of us women fighting fear, including herself, should unite to encourage each other and share success stories.  And she gives us > a website to do that!  So cool!

–Another surprise at the end of the book is a small group study.  So many authors write this in a separate book, but Kelly includes it!  This is a great way to work on those keys to waken your courage, and fight your fears.  If you don’t have a small group, you can certainly do the study by yourself.  You can find other people who have read the book by using > #FearFightingBook on Twitter and Facebook.

To read part of the book, or to purchase, click  –>HERE.

I did receive a free copy of this book from Baker Publishing Group, so I could write a very honest review.


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One Word for 2017


My One Word for 2017 is “Forward”.

I was working on setting goals for the New Year, using Lara Casey’s blog, 2017 Goal Setting Series.  I like her style of setting goals that are encouraging.  Lara also makes it fun by having a big giveaway! Her goal setting blog series and giveaway are >HERE!

In the process of reviewing last year from step 1 of Lara’s blog, I was thinking about what would my >One Word be for next year?  (Every year I pick a word that will help direct my entire year.)  I thought of “forward”, but I wasn’t sure. 

God has been showing me “forward” is exactly the “One Word” I need!

At church the weekend of New Year’s Day, our minister talked about leaving last year behind, and moving forward into 2017! “Wow” I thought, “Forward really is my word for 2017!” Then Sunday afternoon, when I was reading a Bible study, the word “forward” came up again.  So now it was certain, my One Word for 2017 was “FORWARD”!

If you pick some goals or “One Word” for 2017, you first need to leave 2016 behind.  Do you feel like you can’t step forward yet?  If so, then something is holding you back.  At church we sang these words >“Break every chain, a song by Tasha Cobbs .  You need to break free of whatever guilt, shame, or regret you are holding on to! Tell God you are sorry, and let God forgive you.  Know that God has put all your sin so far away that He no longer remembers it.  You can then forgive yourself for any mistakes from the past (if God can forgive you, you can), then step FORWARD into your new year!

Each step is progress!

You may choose a different “One Word”, or you may pick a New Year’s resolution or goal instead, but if you break free from the past, then you can step forward toward your goal.

One of the things I am having trouble leaving behind is my fear.  Fear has held me back for years!  So this year, using my One Word “Forward”, my goal is leaving the fear behind.  One of the ways I am doing this is reading a new book by >Kelly Balarie, >“Fear Fighting.  Kelly tackles fear head on, and she knows from experience.  She had many fears, and she didn’t like how that affected her life and her family.  Since it worked for Kelly, I am jumping into the book to use her “Fear Fighting” tactics!

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I am praying that you can step forward into 2017 and make progress toward your goals!

If you want to tell me what your goals or One Word are for this year, tell me in the comments below. I will read every comment.




I Am Going

First let me say, I’m not really going anywhere.

 I am reviewing the book “I Am Going” by Daniel L. Akin.

This is a small book that gives a good explanation for one Scripture.

It explains “The Great Commission”.  This is what Jesus says in Matthew 28:19-20. “Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all things that I have commanded you; and lo, I am with you always,even to the end of the age.”

If you are like me, and never really understood the meaning of this, then this book is a good explanation for you.  I now have a better understanding of how to do what Jesus told us to do in this Scripture.

Several places in the book, the authors give you a statement to fill in, committing to do something.  For example at the end of the book, you are asked to fill in this:

“I am going to _________.”

But let me say that not everyone is expected to go to another country!  The authors explain that some are called to be missionaries, but the rest of us have other ways to follow this Scripture.  There are several options thankfully.

This is a very short book, and small in size.  Sometimes the explanations are a bit too short.  After reading the book once, I am not ready to fill in all the blanks given in the book.  I will be re-reading it, so I can take time to think and pray, before I make a decision as to what Jesus is asking me to do.  I would recommend the same thing to you and other readers.

If you have always wanted to be a missionary to another country, then maybe you don’t need to read this book.  Just make plans to go.  But if like me, you shudder at the thought of being a missionary, then this book is a good place to start.

To read part of the book, or to purchase, Click here.

I did receive a free copy of this book from B&H Publishing, so I could write an honest review of it.

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Fear Fighting – by Knowing Who Is

I have something special for you! 

This is my first guest post here on my blog!  Kelly Balarie is here sharing her heart and talking about her new book “Fear Fighting”.


 Now that Christmas is over, we think about changing things for the New Year. 

We hope for promises of grace, starting over, and moving forward without fear!  Yes! I want that too! We can both start the New Year working on fighting our fears.  I am so glad to welcome Kelly to my humble blog — Read More

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Fear Fighting: By Knowing Who IS

I have something special for you! 

This is my first guest post here on my blog!  Kelly Balarie is here sharing her heart and talking about her new book “Fear Fighting”.

 Isn’t that what Christmas and the New Year are all about?  Promises of grace, starting over, and moving forward without fear!  Yes! I am so glad to welcome Kelly to my humble blog —


My son and I drove over a bridge we’d driven over a hundred and one times. It happened to be dark. Very dark.

Son, let me ask you a question, “How do you know that water is still there?”

He said, “Well Mommy, I know it is there because it’s just how it is. Water goes there.”

I wonder if we approach God the same way? We know God is there, because he just IS.

God said to Moses, “I AM WHO I AM.  (Ex. 3:14)

God IS who he IS.

He IS with us.

He IS for us.
He IS fighting on our behalf.
He IS liberator.
He IS hope.

He IS light.
He IS creator.
He IS Savior.

The truth IS: God has you. God so has you. More than your mind can conceive.

That issue before you? God already walked ahead of it.

The idea you’ll fail? He knows your way.
The fear your children will get hurt? He is their hope.

The past that haunts you? By his stripes you are healed. (Is. 53:5)
The inadequacies that berate you? In your weakness, his power is perfected. (2 Cor. 12:9)

When trepidation surrounds, know this: God has you tighter than the clothes you wear. He has you more strongly than the house that surrounds you. He will not let fall what he has built. He will not crumble what He is behind.

He IS before all things, and in him all things hold together. Col. 1:17

I learned to find rest for my fears, for my worries and for my anxiety as I wrote the book, Fear Fighting: Awakening the Courage to Overcome Your Fears. Perhaps, today is the day you find rest in who he IS and what he IS leading you. You see, great are his promises for us.

And, great IS the King.

A King who takes care of his children. He brings them within his house and places a banqueting table before them. He does not set their seat a distance of ten feet from the table and mock them. He doesn’t lay out succulent dishes before them and make the salivate. He doesn’t place them just out of arms reach from his glorious goodness. He sits them down at his table of spiritual blessings and says – eat!

Eat! My love for you is great! Enjoy! For what I want you to be full! Celebrate! You need not feel guilty in doing that! I want you to have all I have. I want you to know my life. I welcome you as a chosen one. Come and partake. Come and, not only sit with me, but be full with me and then stay with me – forever.

“Blessed is the one who will eat at the feast in the kingdom of God.” (Luke 14:15)

Blessed is she who knows God IS good.

At peace is she who believes God’s love IS what casts out fear.

Full is one who sits where God IS.


God, may I sit at your table all the days of my life. May I welcome in the bounty that is you. You are enough. Let me not walk away from you for a vision of lesser things. Let me not get distracted with the disorienting ways of the world. Let me not see the faults of others and therefore, miss the fantastic nature of you. Let me not get caught up with progress and miss the process of laying my head on you. Let me not hear the fans and the fanfare so I am unable to get fantastically fanatical about staying in your love. Let me not get so comfortable with sin unapparent, I fool myself into thinking I am religious. Let me not waste away days thinking I knew you, when I chose not to. Don’t let me delude myself; it is easy to do. Amen.

–>Interested in fighting fear? Join the 4 Days to Fearless Challenge!


 About the book, “Fear Fighting, Awakening the Courage to Overcome Your Fears”:

Author and Speaker, Kelly Balarie didn’t always fight fear – for a large part of her life, she was controlled by it. Yet, in her book, Fear Fighting: Awakening Courage to Overcome Your Fears, with God, Kelly charts a new course. Join Kelly, on the journey to go and grow with Christ’s bravery, the Spirit’s counsel and God’s unending love that squelches fear. This book reads like a love letter from God, while offering practical heart-calming prayers, anxiety-reducing tips, and courage-building decrees that will transform your day.


About Kelly Balarie:

Kelly is both a Cheerleader of Faith and a Fighter of Fear. She leans on the power of God, rests on the shoulder of Christ, and discovers how to glow in the dark places of life. Get all Kelly’s blog posts by email or visit her on her blog, her blog, Purposeful Faith. You can also find a variety of resources for your fight against fear here.  



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Christmas Promises Holiness


–Are you holy?

 If you believe that Jesus is your Savior, then yes you are holy!

Did you know you are holy?  Scripture says you are.  –In Ephesians 1:4 Scripture says, “For He (God) chose us in Him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in His (God’s) sight.” (NIV)

God did not want us to be shameful or guilty or rejected.  God wants us to be holy as all His creation should be.

I was familiar with this Scripture in Ephesians and memorized it, and I use it all the time to encourage myself.  But last weekend at church I found out more about our holiness in Hebrews.

Hebrews 10:9-10 says, “Then He (Jesus) said, “Here I am, I have come to do your will.” …   And by that will, we have been made holy through the sacrifice of the body of Jesus Christ once for all.”

So here is the Apostle Paul telling us that Jesus, through His death on earth, made us holy!  Not only that, but Jesus made us holy “once for all”!

To be sure that we understand, Paul says in Hebrews 10:14, “For by one sacrifice He (Jesus) has made perfect forever those who are being made holy.” (NIV)

Jesus made us perfect forever, made us holy!  Awesome!

We all doubt sometimes that we are good enough.  We all make mistakes, and say something we regret.  But that is ok.  God knows we will make mistakes.  God knows we will have doubts.  But God is telling us in His Scriptures, that Jesus paid the price, made the one sacrifice needed, to make us holy and perfect forever! (Perfect is just another word for blameless, so these Scriptures are in agreement.)

So I suggest that we memorize at least 1 of these Scriptures.  Pick one. Then whenever we have doubts of being not good enough, or we have guilt over something we said, go back to the memorized Scripture.  Let God’s Scripture remind us that Jesus made us holy and perfect forever!  There is no other debt owed.  Jesus paid it all.  You owe nothing to the world. 

If you see a need that you have the opportunity to fill, don’t think you cannot do it.  Remember that you are holy and blameless!  Remember Jesus is with you.   Just repeat Philippians 4:13, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” (NKJV).

This is a good time to remember these Scriptures, because at Christmas we celebrate the birth of Jesus.  The birth of Jesus is what set this holy plan in motion on earth.  From birth to death, Jesus was meant to be the 1 holy sacrifice ever needed to wash away our sins and leave us holy and blameless forever.

This was the perfect plan for the perfect Jesus to save us.  Praise God! Amen! 

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Most Awesome Books of 2016

I decided to share with you, my list of —

the Top 5 Most Awesome Books this year!    

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1.Most Awesome Self Help book — “Unashamed” by Christine Caine!

Christine has never disappointed me.  I have read 3 books by her, and they were all awesome.  I read this book and participated in a group study of the book.  Everyone was blown away by how helpful this book was, at a deep personal level.  This book can help you get rid of so much that keeps us stuck in a rut, or depressed, or self cutting.  This book will give you the inspiration and encouragement to release you from shame and fear that keeps you from doing the things you really want to do.  This book is definitely awesome!

2.Most Awesome Science book —  “Star Struck” by Dr. David Bradstreet!

Dr. Bradstreet is a top notch astronomer.  In this book he shares so much about the amazing universe God has created.  Be prepared to be blown away!

3.Most Awesome Fiction–“The Undoing of Saint Silvanus” by B. Moore!

Beth Moore has written her first novel, and it is so good!  Now this is not science fiction or fantasy.  This book is about a family and their friends who live in New Orleans.  It is a mystery, a really good mystery.  It has murder, detectives, romance, family dirt, and interesting characters. You can even download for free the first 4 chapters to try it out. I haven’t done a review on it yet, because Beth is doing a free webcast in January, so I am waiting until then to post a review on my blog.  Go here for info on the webcast.

4.Most Awesome New Bible — “The Illustrator’s Notetaking Bible”!

This is an amazing new type of Bible, that just might get you back in the Bible.  This Bible is all about having the room to take notes, color, draw, and be inspired!

5.Most Awesome Leap into the Future book –-

The Great Spiritual Migration” by Brian McLaren.   

Don’t expect this book to be ordinary.  It is not your normal Christian book on Christianity.  It is about a new movement changing the church for the better hopefully.  It may be the only way to save churches.  It may be the only way for Christianity to address the modern world, with its multi-cultural life filled with technology and tired of discrimination and injustice in traditional churches.  Try it out and see if you can identify with this exciting movement.

I just love these books, and I hope you agree that this is an awesome list! I’ve enjoyed this so much I just may have to do this list every year!

Want to nominate a book for me to read and review for next year’s awesome list?

Tell me in the comments below or send me an email (see the right column).

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The Great Spiritual Migration


“The Great Spiritual Migration” a brand new book by Brian McLaren.

This book is about where we are headed in our faith in God and Jesus Christ.   In case you haven’t noticed, faith is changing.  I have felt it inside me with questions and fears and sorrow.  This book was a big “YES!” for me.

For some of us our faith is growing and moving forward, but for many of us our faith is lagging behind stuck in the past and not wanting to change.  Unfortunately these two different camps are dividing us, pulling us farther apart.  Jesus prayed for us to become one, but we instead are arguing and criticizing each other.   

This book explains how and why faith is changing.  The author tries to pull us forward with him if we dare!  There is so much good in this book, it encourages me to hope that as believers as a whole, we can move forward in our faith in Jesus Christ.  The author discusses why faith is changing, how it is changing, and gives ideas of how the changes could be brought into your life, and into churches for more growth.  He believes that our churches need to promote justice, compassion, wisdom, reconciliation and love.

Being a disciple or follower of Jesus involves movement, growth, action, and faith.  Is this happening in your church?  The church I attend is definitely being pulled in two directions. 

Jesus spoke of generous giving, of helping orphans, widows and the poor.  He spoke of healing and forgiveness.  Jesus told us to love one another.  Where did we get lost?  Many churches today are far from what Jesus taught the world. 

You might want to say, “If it’s not broke don’t fix it”, but people are leaving churches in huge numbers.  Most young people are not joining a church.  Churches are dying, largely because they aren’t willing to grow and change.  The author says in order to save our churches, we need to focus on love.

Jesus told us the most important commandment.  “He answered, Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind; and, love your neighbor as yourself.”(Luke 10:27)

 Is that what your church focuses on?  Many churches focus on man-made rules, instead of what Jesus taught.  What Jesus told us to do was to love God and love our neighbor, all of our neighbors. 

Although I didn’t agree with all the changes the author proposes, I believe he is right that we need to change or our churches will no longer exist.  This has already happened throughout Europe.  Churches stand empty or they are used for other purposes like apartments or community centers.  When that happens, where is God?  How will people learn about God without churches?

This is an important book for followers of Jesus, and our church leadership.  We need to consider what Brian McLaren says in this book, consider it, and see if we can purposely choose to move our faith forward.  He is not saying we should forget what God says in the Bible.  What Brian is saying, is that we have forgotten some of what Jesus taught, and we need to go back to those teachings.  We need to see Jesus as a role model for us to follow. 

Hopefully reading this book will at least make you think.  Hopefully this book will give you a better understanding of what young people think about today’s churches, and the reasons they are not joining in.  Blessedly for some of us, we will recognize the faith changing in us, and realize we are not alone! 

If you would like to find a church that is choosing to move forward with their faith and be more modern-thinking, then you can find a list on this website:  (The author is affiliated with this website.)

One thing I know for sure, this book will challenge you.  It challenged and encouraged me, and I am embracing it. 

Here is the link to buy the book and read a portion of it online.

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A Christmas Opportunity


 It is December once again. This is the season we look forward to each year. 

The season of Christmas!

This gives us a great opportunity to talk about Jesus!  People are more willing to talk about Jesus, because He is the reason for the season.  Even people who don’t believe in Jesus know that Christmas is about his birth.  So use this opportunity and talk about Jesus to people around you.

You can do a favor for someone and tell them you did it because Jesus is the reason for the season.  You can give a mug to friends and neighbors that says “Jesus is the reason”.  You could wear a pin that says “Jesus is the reason”.

Even if Jesus has not played a big part this year so far, you can choose to use the season of Christmas to bring more “Christ” into your life.  Christmas means a celebration of Christ!  So let us celebrate Jesus Christ all of December!

So how can we celebrate Christ?

One of the best ways to celebrate Christmas is to have a joyful attitude.  Greet people with a smile.  Thank people for even little things.  Let others go ahead of you in line.  And then say “Merry Christmas”.  This makes every little thing you do, a Christmas gift.

Many of us get together with family to eat a big meal and talk, maybe exchange gifts, or sing Christmas carols.  So maybe you can have a smaller gathering of neighbors or friends earlier in December to eat snack foods or dessert and talk, and maybe sing Christmas carols.  It is even fun to just sing Christmas carols at home.  Christmas songs always cheer me up.

A lot of us put up a tree and decorate it.  Maybe this year we could also put up an outdoor nativity scene, or a lighted star above the garage door or hung on a tree.  To celebrate the rest of the year, consider putting a cross either above or next to your front door. 

Would you share (in comments below) a favorite way you celebrate Christmas?

Click here to sing “Joy to the World” with lyrics and music!

Click here to get a “Jesus is the Reason” mug for Christmas giving!

(I found this mug at Cracker Barrel.)

Thank you for visiting my blog today.  You made me smile!

Merry Christmas!


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Finding Your Voice


“Finding Your Voice” by Natalie Grant Book Review —

This is a good book, and it is a great topic for Natalie Grant, since she has worked at it both in her singing career, and in her spiritual life motivating her career.  Because of the content of the book concerning choosing a career that fits you best, and about taking care of your body with good food and sufficient sleep, I think this book would be better suited to the YA audience, for high school students, and maybe college students, rather than for adults.

I certainly can find useful information in this book, but since the book is mostly about finding what God wants you to do with your life, and doing that, it would seem to be most useful to people who have not already picked a career.

Her theme throughout the book is that life lived with God is better than trying to do it alone.  Our actions should be motivated by the Spirit, not our own selfish desires.  This is what Natalie has been doing in her life.  She picks songs to sing that are about truth and holy inspiration.  It is this inspiration that led her to start the organization   – “Hope for Justice”, that fights human trafficking.  Also her album “Awaken” was part of this inspiration, about awakening to the Holy Spirit and God’s direction.

Click to listen to some songs from her CD “Awaken”  or to purchase CD.

In general Natalie says that Jesus tells us to do what God wants done, not seek money or fame.  Jesus also tells us to worship God and serve Him only.  It is tempting to protect ourselves and wall ourselves away from troubles in the world, but we should strive to be compassionate.  There is hope in keeping God first in our life.

Natalie gives good advice in this book.  I definitely want to listen to her album “Awaken” that she mentions in the book.  I am not familiar with her music, so it should be enjoyable to hear some of it.  I would think anyone who is a fan of her music would enjoy this book, especially youth and young adults.

For more information on the book or to purchase, click here “Finding Your Voice”.

I received a free copy of “Finding Your Voice” from BookLook Bloggers so that I could write an honest review after reading the book.  I so appreciate the opportunity to read this book.

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